Tuesday, June 9, 2020

The Best Homeschooling Materials for Preschool and Elementary Kids for Summer Learning

I'm not new to homeschooling, but sheesh, distance learning (crisis learning, e-schooling) was HARD. I'm glad school is out for the summer, and I'm back in charge of my kiddos' educations.




Over the years, we've tried many different workbooks, flashcards, apps, games, and activities to help educate our kids. We have dedicated an entire room in our house (supposed to be a dining room) for art, books, games, and learning. Now that summer is in session, we're back at it, using resources we love to help our kids keep up on their skills over the summer.

Though I am a fan of the dollar store for some things, they don't have the games and workbooks that have appealed to my kids or have held up. With four children, I want QUALITY materials that withstand the test of time and use.

Here are a few things that help make home-learning in summer possible:

1: We only work about an hour a day, plus have a thirty minute quiet reading time. We don't commit hours upon hours to formal learning. Nope! I believe that free play is learning.

2: We consistently learn, Monday to Friday. Consistency is so important for kids. They know what to expect. We know what to expect.

3: We utilize a mix of apps and physical resources. Because I have four kids, I can't be working with each kid on their level at the same time. Using both electronic and paper resources is helpful. I can have two kids using apps while I work with the other two, then we switch.

4: We take breaks. Our days are mostly physical activity, free play, plus chores and snack/meal times. The formal learning part is spread between two sessions (one morning, one afternoon) and is always after some serious exercise. 

5: We use learning resources that work. These companies and products are tried-and-true for our family. We're organized and we know that our educational materials are quality.







Everyone is talking about #distancelearning — how it works, tips and tricks, frustrations. ✏️ We are in the thick of it. It’s HARD. We give up. We start over. We flow. We fight. It’s constant. ✏️ However, I know a few things to be true. Our teachers and therapists and principals are working hard for our kids. It’s so clearly evident and beautiful. I also know that my kids need some structure and expectations — and #elearning gives us that. Otherwise, I truly think all hell would break loose. ✏️ When the kids are learning, they spread out. Less distractions = better. ✏️ As their mom, I’m now also their teacher, therapist, principal, and psychologist, cheerleader, coach, nurse, and everything else. Plus work, manage my home, and practice some #selfcare to keep my #type1diabetes and #anxiety in check. Whew! ✏️ Talk to me about e-school in your #quarantinelife ! What are your kids’ ages and grades? How much work do they have? How’s it going? πŸ‘‡πŸΌπŸ‘‡πŸΏπŸ‘‡πŸΎπŸ‘‡πŸ½ . #quarantine #school #schoolsout #melaninpoppin #multiracialfamily #bigfamilylife #bigfamily #teacher #specialneedsmom #whitesugarbrownsugar #classroom #tuesdaymotivation #tuesdayvibes #tuesdaythoughts
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Here's some of the companies and products we swear by for home learning:

1: Handwriting Without Tears

These workbooks are the best of the best. Racially diverse illustrations, simple (simple simple), and developed by an occupational therapist. There's books for preschoolers all the way up to kids learning to write in cursive and practice. 


2: eeBoo

Quality, creative products that help kids learn is what eeBoo is all about! They offer so many different products including games, literacy cards, and art supplies. If you can make your kids' learning fun, why wouldn't you?




3: Explode the Code

We've used their phonics workbooks for several years, and I love how they are leveled. When your child finishes one, just move to the next. These books focus on vocabulary and grammar. Like the Handwriting Without Tears books, they are simple. No distracting clip art or hard-to-read fonts. You can purchase each book separately, or there's the option to purchase leveled sets. If you're teaching your child to read, grab the book homeschoolers swear by: Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons. (Psst: I had each kid reading by lesson #25 or so!) Again, the book is super simple--black and white. No apps, special leveled reader books, etc. needed!




4: Peaceable Kingdom

I absolutely love all of their products--but the cooperative games are our fave. Many are top-rated, colorful, and racially diverse. Most of their products focus on social and emotional development, including empathy--yes, this is important for learning, too!

5: Learning Resources

Learning Resources offers a variety of products that make kids want to learn and keep learning. We own many of their products, including some I'll suggest to you here. I love that they're colorful (visually appealing to our kids) and hands-on.




We have two rolling carts that help us keep our kids' workbooks, flashcards, etc. organized. Each child has their own shelf on the cart.




We also make sure we have plenty of art supplies on hand, including skin-tone art supplies:




Happy summer, and happy learning to you and your family! 

Tuesday, June 2, 2020

10 Anti-Racism Children's Picture Books

The past few weeks have been a constant cycle of grief, anger, frustration, and stress. George Floyd's murder and all that has transpired since is weighing heavily on our hearts and minds. During one particularly difficult day, when I felt beyond helpless and anxious, I walked into my son's room and saw a book on his bedroom floor. He'd been reading The Undefeated, a children's book about incredible Black people who shaped history and present.


This gave me the idea to share with you some of our favorite anti-racism children's picture books, because times like these can often leave parents feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about what to do. How much is too much? What if we don't say enough? What if we say the wrong things? 

Please, please choose to do take action. Choose to lean in and listen, learn, and change. Empathize. And most of all, grow. Prepare your children for the realities they will face. If they are a child of color, this means one thing. If they are white, that means another. I strongly believe that ALL children deserve parents who will teach them what anti-racism is.



I want to suggest to you that books shouldn't be the ONLY tool you use to teach your kids about anti-racism. I believe in-person relationships and conversations are the best of the best. However, books are powerful, helpful tools that are readily available in your home.

Parents, if you're raising white children, they need these books, too. After all, racism didn't invent itself. It has a long, violent history, started by white people and continued by white people. Parents should get educated themselves on what anti-racism is and how to be part of it, and then they need to educate their children. I offer anti-racism book suggestions for adults here.

Note that none of these books actually have "anti-racism" in the title. This is a word you need to discuss with your children. Despite the titles here not explicitly stating "anti-racism" they are books that teach facets of anti-racism that are critical to kids (and parents) understanding why it's so important and necessary. 

If you'd like to learn more about the books I'm sharing here, click or tap on the book image. You can then read the book description, reviews, take a peek inside some of them, and purchase if you wish.

I'm thankful for your readership and that you are doing things in your home that matter and will have a forever-impact on your children. Please join me on Facebook and Instagram for powerful discussions on race, adoption, and motherhood.




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The first time my son was called a “thug” was when he was a toddler. At two, he was in diapers and learning to string words together. He was a happy baby. Affectionate. It didn’t matter how wonderful he was. It didn’t matter that he had white parents, either—our #whiteprivilege didn’t extend to him. It didn’t matter that he was so young. The world swiftly stereotyped him, labeling him as criminal, suspicious, dangerous. πŸ–€ It’s heavy days like these that make me want to put my son in a protective bubble. There’s fear, anger, restlessness. Choosing empathy for #ahmaudarbery ‘s grieving mother means choosing to acknowledge that not all children are safe. Melanin is a perceived threat, and it has been for hundreds of years. πŸ–€ We struggle to balance teaching our children the reality, preparing them, and letting them be kids. It feels impossible, because even in preparing, we know that only so much in is their/our control. One way (of many) we teach our children is through books. Books that affirm, that tell truth, that educate. Books that speak to their blackness. πŸ–€ I think the #1 best resource is real life racial mirrors. There’s a reason my son lights up when he sees his barber, his pastor, his cousin. Seeing his melanin reflected back in bigger, stronger, smarter, funnier men is magical. Irreplaceable. Invaluable. πŸ–€ I’m doing a lot of reflection right now. The weight of the news is suffocating. Many parents and children have known these injustices their whole lives. My husband and I are still learning and evolving. We’re leaning heavily on those who share our children’s race, who have experience and wisdom, to guide us. πŸ–€ I am thankful for the Black men and women who choose to pour into our children. . #blacklivesmatter #blackchildren #blackchildrensbooks #blackchild #blackchildrenmatter #multiracialfamily #transracialadoption #blackboy #blackboyjoy #whitesugarbrownsugar #mothersdayweekend #saturdayvibes
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Tuesday, May 26, 2020

12 Anti-Racism Books You Need to Read, Working to Become an Ally

With the very recent murders of Ahmaud Arbery and Breonna Taylor comes a reminder to us all. It's time to recommit to anti-racism. While many of us are still in quarantine and summer break is starting, it's a good time to pick up some books on becoming allies and becoming better parents to our children of color.




If you follow me on social media, you've probably noticed how passionate I am about this topic. Anti-racism means confronting white privilege and not falling back on white guilt and white fragility when we're called out or challenged, as well as doing the work to listen, learn, change, and move forward.



What better way to do this than to learn from people of color who have authored books that specifically speak to the importance of dismantling white supremacy? We also need to keep in mind that it's not fair or appropriate to burden people of color with the task of educating us on how to be woke. The work falls on us. We need to learn from the resources that are already out there, not beg people of color to teach us or rescue us from whiteness.


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I will never forget the day a white woman (acquaintance) called my then two-year-old Black, big son a “cute little thug.” πŸ–€ My girls were adored much longer than my son. They were “cute” and “precious” and “adorable.” Yes, “compliments” we’re sometimes gross. Like, “I’ve always wanted to adopt a little Black baby.” But generally, my girls were gushed over longer than my son. πŸ–€ The #stereotypes around #blackboys are harsh and start YOUNG. Suspicious. Scary. Loud. Promiscuous. Criminal. “Thug”— was what came to this woman’s mind when she saw my baby. A boy still in diapers who was learning to throw a ball and string words together. πŸ–€ I tell parents all the time: the world works very hard to tear down #bipoc children. We must work even harder to build them up. πŸ–€ It breaks my heart to know my son isn’t treated the same as his white peers. Why can’t others see his humor, empathy, intelligence, strengths, and #blackboyjoy ? πŸ–€ Some people mistakingly assume that my kids don’t experience racism, because we (parents) are white. Yes, there are time our #whiteprivilege has shielded our children. But it’s not indefinite and always. πŸ–€ When was the first time your child was called a racist name? πŸ‘‡πŸΌπŸ‘‡πŸ½πŸ‘‡πŸΎπŸ‘‡πŸΏ . . #racisminamerica #racism #dearwhitepeople #multiracialfamily #thug #blackboysmatter #blackboysrock #whitesugarbrownsugar #transracialadoption #transracialfamily #melaninpoppin #wednesdaymotivation
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I want to introduce you to twelve books (some of which are written for teens and young adults) that I recommend you check out. Some have been around awhile, while some are hot off the press. Each of them is very important in their own way, and each is authored by a person of color. I think it's very important that if we're going to learn to be anti-racist and be great parents to our kids of color, we do so by listening to those who have lived experience and education in these areas.


You can click or tap on the book image to learn more including read a description, check out reviews, glimpse inside the book, and purchase.